Happy Galentines Day

Today’s post is all about celebrating the relationships with our girlfriends. The friends that are there for us through thick and thin, the ups and the downs, the ugly crying and the celebratory nights out. I think this is a fabulous idea and wonder why Hallmark haven’t snapped up this idea, after all, they jumped on the Grandparents Day didn’t they?!

For those of you that don’t know, Galentines Day is celebrated the day before Valentines Day and it’s a day to get together with your girlfriends, leave the men and cats at home and just share the love. Cards, gifts, Margaritas, the choice is all yours.

So today, I’m handing over the reigns, again, to the lovely Lexi. She enjoyed it that much on Monday that I just thought what the hell and this time, she’s managed to convince her BFF, Rosie to join in the festivities…..

Hello again my lovelies! Oh, Happy Galentines Day too, I hope you’re all going to be showing your friends just how much you appreciate them. I’m spending tonight with my best friend Rosie. She’s never really been huge fan on the whole Galentines Day so this last week or so was spent working on getting her to change her mind. I mean, it’s basically an excuse to have a girls night out/in, eat lots and have a few drinks, and maybe a present or two if you’re lucky. I thought long and hard about what to get her for such an occasion. I hand made her card which I’m pretty impressed with, even if I say so myself. Picasso would be proud. And very probably a small child. It’s quite red and glittery….I may have had an accident with a tub of glitter and a pot of glue but shhhhh. So for her present, I got her a gorgeous Diptyque candle because I know how she loves a good bubble bath with a scented candle after a mad day at work, and I also supplied the chocolate that was supposed to go with our movie – Rosie was on meal and cocktail duty, hopefully in that order.

That was how I’d planned our very adult, sophisticated Galentines night in anyway……when I arrived at Rosie’s however, I learnt that she had other plans.

As I opened the front door, I was greeted by a very hyperactive Rosie wearing shocking pink leggings and an oversized black t shirt with her hair in pigtails. This was our usual outfit of choice when we were about 8 years old. I laughed, and cringed, and then saw that she had Saved by the Bell on the television. We were obsessed with Zac (who wasn’t) and both swore we were going to be that cool when we reached high school, because at the time, we thought they were the shizz. Cringe.

The house looked like a 90’s throwback and I couldn’t believe that Rosie had gone to so much effort, the girl that had grumbled her way through several Pina Coladas last year as I tried to reminisce over the years gone by. She screwed her nose up and complained that I’d made her miss a new episode of The Simpsons, which apparently made me a bad friend. I was so close to pushing her drunk ass off of the bar stool, but I didn’t, because I am a good friend. So as I sat down, she explained to me that this year, she was going to show me how Galentines Day should be done. And she did.

I was the planner of the group growing up, I had to organise the four of us to within an inch of our lives, but this Rosie was on a mission to take me back in time through our friendship, all 27 years of it. I cried like a baby, she hit me. I hit her back. Then poured us some alcopops – because we had to add some sophistication to the evening, I insisted on glasses.

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Rosie had been very creative this year with her gifts which impressed me a great deal. She had made me a memory book, a playlist of our lives and bought me a dvd of Fiddler on the Roof, our favourite musical. And an Alexander McQueen scarf ‘just in case I thought the other gifts were shit’. She rocked my world. I think we all know who the man in our friendship is here don’t we folks. Now, obviously I can’t share some things with you on here, some of the photos should never see the light of day, but I can share with you the playlist of our lives! And the collage she made of our old crushes! Please don’t judge me, The Hoff really did make me swoon – still does to be fair.

*WARNING – EXTREME CHEESE ALERT* 

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Aren’t they adorable?!

And the music, oh the music. Music has always been a pretty big part of our lives, we love us some old school classics to get the party started. The party that currently has me being forced into a pair of electric blue leggings while fighting against the hair crimpers that are coming my way. Meeep.

Rosie’s Playlist

Ooh Aah Just a Little Bit – Gina G

Wannabe – Spice Girls

One and Only – Chesney Hawkes

Girls Just Wanna Have Fun – Cyndi Lauper

Dirrty -Christina Aguilera

Paradise by the Dashboard Light – Meatloaf

(I’ve Had) The Time Of My Life – Bill Medley

9 to 5 – Dolly Parton

Saturday Night – Whigfield

I feel a mix tape of my own coming on this weekend, what do you think ladies? You can’t beat dancing around with a drink in your hand with your best friends reliving all the good times. And this is why I will continue to celebrate Galentines Day!

I hope wherever you are, you’re all enjoying your evening. Now I’m going to go and get my Dirrty on 😉

Lexi xxxxxxx

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Your Valentine’s Week starts here!

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Well hello there you lovely lot!

It’s Valentines week and boy are you in for a treat. You’ll be getting a lot of action from the gang from The Story of Us thanks to the Chick Lit Chat Valentine’s Promo Event which I’m very excited about. You’ve all met the lovely Lexi, and if you haven’t, you’re about to get to know her quite well in this brilliant Q & A! I’ll hand her the reigns now and hopefully she’ll behave 😉

1) What three qualities do you find most attractive in a partner?

Wow, you’ve not given me an easy one to start with have you. Cheers guys. It’s so tempting to put a peachy bum, abs of steel and gorgeous eyes, but that’s just a bit shallow isn’t it? To be honest, I think my answers are kind of obvious, but they’re true. To me, respect is one of the most important things in a relationship. It works both ways of course, but a guy has to respect you, not just treat you like an accessory or a piece of meat.

Secondly, a great sense of humour. If he doesn’t laugh at my jokes, then he clearly hasn’t got one. Seriously, I’m hilarious.

Finally, kindness. Someone who has a good heart will always melt mine.

So there you have it, respect, kindness and a great sense of humour….although the peachy bum, abs of steel and gorgeous eyes do help too ;)

2) What’s your idea of romance?

I love to be whisked off of my feet unexpectedly. Or just to have someone make cute little gestures. Take for example my dad, he brings my mum a bunch of roses home every Friday, without fail, just because. I love receiving messages or phone calls just because your other half misses you through the day or misses hearing your voice. I’m a sucker for the sweet traditional stuff, I liked to be romanced old school baby!

3) Who’s your favorite on-screen couple (Film or TV)?

Okay, so if I tell you this you have to promise not to scoff at me….promise?It’s, Homer and Marge Simpson. I know, I know, they’re cartoon characters, bla bla bla but I challenge anyone to say that they wouldn’t want the unconditional love that Marge has for Homer. They stick together through thick and thin, through Homer’s misgivings and the kids causing havoc. Homer always comes good in the end, he’s just a little bit hopeless sometimes.

4) What’s been your most embarrassing moment in regards to the opposite sex?

Does having your leg dry humped by a dog on your first date count? If so, THAT!

5) What was your first impression of your partner or crush? How accurate was it?

I thought he was an absolute ass. Never wanted to see him again to be honest. But I’m glad I did because I learnt that he had his reasons for being like that and as wrong as they were, I appreciated his honesty.

6) How have you coped with break-ups in the past?

HA, this is a good one. I’ve eaten my own body weight in ice cream and cried at Kate Hudson movies. It’s never pretty.

7) Which hot actor would you want to be stranded on a deserted island with and why?

Ooooh, now you’re talking! I’m quite torn though, I’m quite partial to some Simon Baker but Alex O’Loughlin is pretty damn special isn’t he?! Alex looks like he could hunt for food and set up camp pretty well because trust me when I say nobody wants to be around me when I’m hungry ;)

8) What is the craziest thing you’ve ever done for love?

Moved away from everything and everyone I knew.

9) PDA: How much is acceptable?

Ugh, I’m all for sweet little kisses or an arm around your waist, maybe even a little moment on the bum but I really do hate when people are practically down each others throats in the middle of the street. Get a room y’all, get a room.

10) What is the best relationship advice you’ve ever gotten?

Take a chance and forget about the past. You have to follow and trust in your heart, it usually knows what it’s doing.

Well, that was fun! I hope I get to come back again at some point, I’ve quite liked taking over. I’d better love you and leave you though, I have a kitty here that’s threatening to jump all over my laptop, God only knows what nonsense he’d come up with.

Thanks for joining me! Lexi xxxx

Day of rest?! What’s that!

Today might be classed as the day of rest, but there is certainly no rest for this little monster! I’ve had my head firmly in my laptop and iPad – I’m a multi tasking machine – for the last week or so and I’ll be honest, my brain is struggling to cope haha it tries it’s best, but now it’s begging for something else to do. So I’m treating it to a book….as long as it blogs nicely for me here 😉

My current read is Beauty by Louise Mensch (previously writing as Bagshawe). I am such a huge fan of hers and the fact that she seems so lovely whenever you tweet her or anything, just makes it even better. I’m about 45% through but will do a little write up and review for you on here when I’ve done. I will tell you now though, it’s bloody brilliant so far!

Of course, my brain has mainly spit it’s dummy out because I’ve been trying so hard to nail the marketing side of The Story of Us. This is not an easy task. God’s honest truth, yesterday I was Facebooking on my laptop, tweeting on my iPad and replying to emails on my phone. It. Was. Crazy. So being back on WordPress in a way is quite nice because it means I’m writing again without being restricted to 140 characters!

Anyway, yesterday, I promised to tell you a little bit more about my characters. There’s so much I want to tell you that I truly don’t know where to start….so how about I start at the logical place? How about I start with the lovely Alexandra, Lexi for short. Sunday names can be so awkward can’t they.

Lexi Jones is a fiery little redhead that grew up in Leeds, Yorkshire. She has an adorable little kitty called Mr Beefy and works exceptionally hard in advertising – too hard really, think 9 to 5 by Dolly Parton. She lives with Walker Harrison, a bit of an arse if we’re being completely honest here, but he does have certain qualities…..if you look hard. I thought a lot about my main character as I was developing her. I like to get an image in my head and then mould her from there and although Lexi was a little harder to pin down image-wise, I did finally manage it. The thing I love about her is that, she’s just like most of us girls. Sometimes we do lose sight of the things that are important to us, and it’s only when something forces our hand that we wake up and decide to make a change. I speak from experience here too. It’s so easy to keep plodding along with a job, or a relationship, because you get comfortable and change is scary, but when your hand is forced and you do finally walk away (for me it was a  job) you slowly realise that it was the best thing you could have ever done.

Anyway, I thought I’d share a little snippet with you all on here. I have a few favourite parts but there are some that I can’t share with you at the moment, they would be pretty big spoilers 😉

 “I can’t think of any words that would do it justice, and yes before you say anything I know that I’m the one in advertising and I should be able to think of words at the snap of my fingers but -” I’m just about to get very deep with Ryan – ahem – when I feel something thud against my leg. I see the horror and glee in Ryan’s eyes as I slowly look down. The dog from earlier on is having its way with my leg and I’m frozen in disgust. My brain is screaming at me to shake it the hell off but I just. Can. Not. Move. – Lexi

If you want to join the madness over on Facebook, here I am: Ellen Faith – Author.

I hope you’ve all had a brilliant weekend and I’ll see you very soon.

Mucho love,

Ellen

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Welcome to the weekend

Hallelujah, we have reached the weekend people! This calls for a celebration, right?

Well, to be honest, that’s not the only thing that I’m celebrating today…..are you ready folks? You’ve been here with me for a lot of the rants and ramblings, a lot of the ummm-ing and arrrr-ing (okay, so maybe I arrrrr-d a lot more than ummmm-d) but I finally did it.

I SELF PUBLISHED!

Now, one of my last posts was about how I’d had to do a little detour from the novel I had intended to release, and that I was on my way with a new book. It’s this new book that I eventually released yesterday. It’s called The Story of Us and here is the synopsis for you all to have a little looksie at:

Alexandra Jones has a pretty peachy life. A gorgeous, stinking rich fiancé, her sleazy boss is retiring which means an imminent promotion in a job she loves, and she gets her best friends Jimmy Choos when she dies. Although she would prefer her best friend to stick around as long as possible. Obviously.

But when a blast from the past turns up on her doorstep just as her world turns upside down, she decides to take her best friend, Rosie, up on her offer of a 10 day break in San Francisco. Whilst Rosie works on a fashion shoot and Alexandra becomes well acquainted with the photographer’s brother, it becomes clear that this trip is one that will change their lives forever.

And here is the cover, isn’t she pretty?! Courtesy of the amazing Rebecca at Berto Designs.

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Now, I’m going to be back again tomorrow to fill you all in on what’s been happening since I posted last, along with a little something else about my new book. I feel like you all deserve something a little extra for putting up with me being so quiet lately. If you want to pop on over to Goodreads and add it to your TBR list, you can do so by clicking here: Goodreads – The Story of Us and you can even find chapter one there for free!

Or if you think it sounds awesome anyway and would like to dive straight in and buy, then click on the Amazon links below 🙂

Amazon US: The Story of Us 

Amazon UK: The Story of Us 

Happy February guys!

Ellen

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Making time

I’ve found recently that I just can’t seem to find enough time to sit down and read. Ever since I finished Wallbanger I’ve been distracted by one thing or another, and it’s really starting to bug me. I vote that we ask for more hours in the day, who’s with me?

Anyone?

No one?

Okay, just me then. Sigh.

Last night I took my laptop to bed with me and managed to write another chapter for Ties. Does anybody else find themselves writing chapters that are further on in their book? I’ve found myself writing completely out of order lately, but given my recent lull I thought I should just go with it and let my imagination take me where it pleases.

I’ve also started to write a post about my main character too. I think this will be a nice way to introduce you to her, and maybe a few of the others, so that you get to know them a little better. I’m quite excited about this!

I was doing some research yesterday through various links courtesy of Google, and decided that I should probably get to work on my blurb. This is a concept that still confuses me slightly though. Am I right in thinking a blurb can be one of two things….a comment on your book from another person (like what you find on the front of dvd covers haha) OR a type of mini synopsis, like what you find on the back of a book. Obviously I intend to write the latter of the two! I hope I’ve got my head around this properly because that would be a little embarrassing if not.

So many things to think about and such little time. Which brings me back to my first point. More hours in the day please Mr Cameron. Thank you muchly.

EF

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Character inspiration

What and who usually inspires you to write characters a certain way?

I know that recently I’ve been thinking a lot about my characters, to the point where I feel like they are all friends of mine, which is good I guess. I usually start with an image of the kind of person I have in my head for my characters and then as time goes on, I try to find a person online that is similar – hard life right?! Seriously though, sometimes a person just falls into my lap and I don’t have to have a good Google (dread to think how badly cookied I am!) For example, I was watching the Fashion Police last week – I do love me some Joan Rivers – and they started talking about Tom Brady. Now, I recognised the name, but I still have no idea why, maybe from seeing it online somewhere? I don’t watch American Football, I mean we have ESPN but over here but it’s not really that big. So, when his face appeared on my screen I actually froze, spoon halfway into mouth – not a pretty sight I’ll grant you – but there he was, my Jamie!! He is just how I described the character look-wise in my book, I couldn’t believe it.

I don’t know about anyone else, but I find that when I have a picture like that to keep looking at, it helps inspire me and to actually visualize the way they speak, the way they move, everything.

I’m thinking of doing a post about my characters soon, what does everybody think? Yey or nay (yes or no?!) I’m about three quarters of the way through writing my book now, then there’s the editing process etc but I’m excited to get some bits out there into the big wide world, any hints or tips would be greatly appreciated 🙂

EF

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